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25July2008 Rainy Listen, or thy tongue will make thee deaf ~ -NativeAmerican Proverb- Seek first to understand and then be Understood It.ll greatly help in realtionship .. Tell yourself : Now Shut Up , and listen and try to understand her/him.. Please Listen- Genuinely It help you understand people and also get understood .. I personally has one poor listening skill .. which is Spacing Out (Quite Terrible) It is when someone is talking but your mind is wandering off in other Galxery usually when you are thinking hard .. I hate Probing people .. it occur when people try to dig up your emotion before you feel like sharing with them, or maybe not ready to share .. So irritating~ tsk~tsk~ Don't fight while voicing out your views .. It not your solution vs. my solution its not a competition who is brainer .. Understand their point-of-view Assess it and choose whether is it worth using .. If not , make yourself be understood .. Listening is a form of Skill Jiaz~ Labels: Listening is a form of Skill |